Adult dating websites are the platforms only for those people who are interested in casual sex relationship with no strings attached. You can scan for potential partners for a hookup. People who join those sites are looking for sex rather than relationship. So, if you are looking relationship dating than you can skip this article now. Today, I am going to talk specifically on adult dating experience (Expectations Vs Reality). Without further ado, we shall move on with our main point which is Adult Dating: Expectations Vs Reality.
1st Scenario: - Message
Expectations
I didn’t many messages when I first join adult dating websites. I used to think inbox full of messages are for those people who are extrovert in nature.
Reality
Though I am introvert kind of guy in nature who don’t like to socialize in an unknown environment. I do get tones of messages after joining adult dating websites. There are always many people who think you are attractive and want to have a piece of you.
2nd Scenario: - Date Arrangement
Expectations
When I can flirt with her on chat then it’s nothing impossible to ask her out. It will be totally cool and I can nail it.
Reality
When it comes to asking her out for a date, I was totally scared and feel pressure to ask her out for a date. The fear of rejection is strong in my mind and it’s holding me back.
3rd Scenario: - Personal Meeting first Time
Expectations
There is nothing to feel pressure and you can nail it while dating. I used to think when I can cyber-flirt people then why not in personally. I will do this and that while I meet her for the first time.
Reality
When you are meeting your date for the first time then you ran out of words. Basically, when we chat safely from behind the screen, we don’t really know each other and chemistry. We are total strangers except we used to chat with each other.
4th Scenario: - Rejection
Expectations
It will be an awkward situation and I doubt how to handle it. The memories where we exchange photos and time spends with each other will hunt me.
Reality
It’s totally what I thought about rejection. People didn’t join adult dating for relationship purpose and if you are seeking relationship then you are in the wrong place. You are going to find an abundance of people for quick sex without relationship attachment. That’s how it should be in adult dating.
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